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Friendships are a very important part of life. That is why God is so concerned about the people you hang with and what kind of friend you are. The kind of friend you are will determine the kind of people that you hang around with. Leadership expert John Maxwell often talks about the law of magnetism. This law says, “Who you are is who you attract.” The thing that determines who will become your friends is not what you want, but who you are. Each day that you make choices based on the characteristics of honesty and truth, you provoke others by your actions to do the same. On the other hand, when you compromise and give into sin, you attract people who will take you down even further. The actions you choose to make each day determine the kind of people you attract. Choose wisely. It says in Proverbs 18:24, A man that has friends, must show himself friendly; and there is a friend that sticks closer than a brother. In order to have good friends you must be a good friend. Lets look at Galatians 5:22 where it talks about the fruits of the spirit. But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness and self-control. When the fruits of the Spirit are seen in you and through your actions, people will want to be around you. People who want good friends want friends who are kind, loving, at peace (not arguing with everyone), have patience (even when you mess up, your friend is always there for you helping you make the right decisions), they are faithful (always there for you), they are gentle (always encouraging you and speaking good about you), and they are always using self-control in every area of their life and helping you do the same.
The world says its hard to find friends you can trust, people you can count on. But when you are sowing good friendship, trust-worthy friendship, then you will reap good and trust-worthy friendships. Check out 1 Corinthians 13, known as the love chapter. This is also another part of scripture that will show you how to be a good friend. Allow God to change you if you need some help in the friendship area. He is so ready to help you. All you have to do is ask Him and then do the fixing that you need to do.
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